So after the day that we met at the Hospital, and decided that we would like to see eachother socially, ( not that we saw eachother profesionally ) but I think you get what I mean. I invited her to a BBQ, that some friends and I where throwing the week before the fourth of July. She said that she would love to go, and I got all giddy like I was a little school boy. Cause hey lets face it, She is HOT......... So moving on, I spend the week of the BBQ getting ready for the party. Now a bit of background, I didn't date alot of people here in Idaho, when I first moved here. Mainly due to the fact that there is alot of women that are beautiful, but most ( not all ) but most, really want to be married, and I was not in any position to do anything of the sort. Nor did I want anything at the time, even resembling that big of a commitment. I did however date a woman for about two weeks, around christmas time the year before, and she was going to be at the party, I was throwing. ( Yeah imagine my butterflies ) Oh the drama. So the day of the party comes around, and I have been talking to Abbie pretty much every night since we first met, due to the fact that I now had her number, and really did like talking to her ( great conversationalist ) . I knew how to get to her house in Lewisville, and she knew when I would be picking her up for the night. Now it is really not hard to get to where she lives, but I was so nervous, I actually drove past her house on perpouse three times. ( Yeah I know what your thinking, I am a pansy, and that is what it is, so get off me ) So finally I call her, after driving past her place, I call her and tell her I am lost, due to the fact that I am now a bit late in picking her up, for the date. Durring the call I find out that the other guy, RON, will be comming to the same BBQ ( you remember RON, from her version of the meeting ). Seems as though RON, is also talking to my friend Tammy, and she has invited him to the same BBQ, and we are all going to be there with smiles on our faces. ( imagine if you will the amount of insecurity that rushed over me ) So I pick Abbie up, and we race back into town, to get to the party. Just as we pull up, Tammy and Ron pull up at the same time. WOW, I am just so happy to be in this position. NOT. I do however act like the gracious co-host, and welcome them, and continue on to the party, being the guy that my mother created ( as far as party host, and just a great partyer ). The party is in full swing, and I see her. My ex........ ( stomach instantly falls to my knees ) Yeah I am really happy now, here I am with this beautiful woman, sitting next to me, next to her, is a guy she has gone out with, and here comes my ex... BEAUTIFUL. Well the night went off without a hitch, and I know that I began to fall for Abbie that night. You see she pretty much ignored the evil stares of my ex, and you would have never known that she had gone out with RON. In her words, " I was there with you, and you where there with me, thats all." After the BBQ, Tammy and Ron, asked of we wanted to go see a movie, and being a guy, I knew Ron wanted to be around Abbie more, and I know Tammy was wanting some more company other than Ron. Knowing this, I opted that we go do our own thing. Abbie quickley agreed with me, and off to the dairy queen we went. After getting a couple blizzards we walked around the greenbelt, and talked alot more about who we where, making fun of the young couples along the side of the river, staring blissfully at the temple. ( Yeah it happens alot here ) I took her home, and knew there was something really special about this girl. The next week, she and her family where off to Calgary Canada for the Calgary Stampede. I text her, and called her everyday that she was gone, and as soon as she returned home, we where off on a second date. From that day on we have been together pretty much everyday.
Reflections
12 years ago